Here’s another thing I have to apologize for because of my marriage: Clear-cut forests.
Back in October 2008 (before California’s Proposition 8 was passed to forbid same-sex marriage) my wife, Leanne, made a list of all the terrible things our marriage was likely to cause, including loss of freedom of religion and Armageddon. Recently I learned we’re causing this new terrible thing: clearcutting. Therefore, I’d like to apologize today for that.
I love forests; I prize our lush green woods; I greatly value the Earth and all people and life on it, and I try to teach my daughter the same. Therefore, I’m really sorry that my marriage with Leanne is responsible for these new barren fields (and probably, therefore, our collective demise).
On the other hand, I would like to thank Maine Senator Larry Bliss, who in fact does NOT see it this way:
Rev. Emrich looks at marriage equality in Maine and sees “acres of clear-cut land.” I look at marriage equality, and I see thousands of Maine couples whose lives are more secure, whose children have more protections under the law and whose rights are assured to love each other and to have the law acknowledge and honor their partnerships.
Thank you indeed, Sen. Bliss, for this excellent article and thanks to Pam’s House Blend for pointing the way to it today.
And now let’s be serious. I have a feeling that most people are not fully evolved in their opinions about this like Rev. Emrich or like Sen. Bliss. I have a feeling that for many people the question of same-sex people marrying — which might seem new and scary to some, especially if you’re told it will cause so much terror — is not so (ahem) clear-cut. I have a feeling that plenty of people are stuck in between, listening and reading, and trying to figure out how to make sense of all of this. If you are one of these people, I invite you — in fact, I welcome you — to come to the table with us, sit down, and talk.
We’re probably not as scary and not as horrible as all that.